Question 1

How do we know which programme is right for us?

Accepted Answer

All three programmes last 12 weeks, but each one guides you at a different depth and with a different focus.

FOUNDATION – The Path of Touch
The best starting point for almost anyone. An easy, playful and gradual programme built on connection, touch, communication, attention and tuning in to each other. You don't need any previous training or special experience.

ADVANCED – The Art of Pleasure
Much more body-centred. It works with a more conscious awareness of the body, with experiencing arousal and pleasure, with a deeper understanding of how women and men work, and with concrete techniques. Choose it if you don't just want to grow closer, but also want to develop your intimate life with intention.

DEEPENING – The Path of the Soul
The deepest, most meditative and most spiritual level of the programmes. Alongside physical connection, conscious presence, inner attention, ritual and the tantric view play a bigger role. We recommend it mainly to couples who are looking not only for techniques, but for a deeper path together.

In short: if you want an easy start, FOUNDATION. If you want to work more deeply with the body and with pleasure, ADVANCED. If, beyond physical connection, the inner, more spiritual side of tantra attracts you, DEEPENING.

Question 2

How much time does it take each day?

Accepted Answer

You don't need to free up hours every evening.

The programme has shorter exercises of 10–20 minutes, and deeper shared sessions that can last 30–60 minutes or even longer. Not every day is the same, and the goal is not to complete the tasks against a stopwatch.

This isn't one more item on your daily to-do list that you need to get done as fast as possible. The time you spend together is part of the experience.

If an exercise feels especially good, feel free to stay with it longer. The programme makes room for that too. What matters is not how many minutes it took, but that you are truly present.

Question 3

How does the programme work?

Accepted Answer

After your purchase you get access to the app, where the full 12-week programme guides you step by step.

It's important to know that the programme is built up gradually on purpose. Some exercises in the first weeks – for example breathing, attention or tuning in to each other – may seem simple or slow at first. There's a reason for this: the deeper exercises later build on these foundations.

Don't judge the programme by the first few days. It has a deliberate arc, and it truly comes together when you go all the way through. The 12 weeks are not a collection of separate exercises, but a path that takes you from one place to another.

The experience is different for every couple: your pace, your openness and how you practise together shape it. That's why, instead of a promise, we suggest this: give the full 12 weeks a chance.

Question 4

How does the app help you practise?

Accepted Answer

The app is there so that you don't have to work out what to do and when – you don't get study material to read, you get a guided experience.

The programme is divided into weeks and steps, so you always know where you are and what comes next.

Every week of all three programmes includes voice guidance: for the key exercises you start the “Guide us” voice, put the phone down, and the voice guides you through the exercise. You can also listen to the theory parts with the weekly read-aloud. Not every exercise has audio – for the others, a short, clear description guides you.

This way you don't need to read instructions, keep track of time or wonder what the next step should be. It becomes much easier to really focus on each other.

You can both use the programme on your own phones, with your own logins – and you both see the same shared progress.

Question 5

Is the price for one person or for two?

Accepted Answer

The price is per couple, not per person.

This means you don't have to buy two separate programmes. You can both use the programme on your own phones, and you both receive the guidance meant for each of you.

If you look at it per person, the price is in practice shared between the two of you: for the ADVANCED programme at €99, for example, that's €49.50 per person – for the full 12 weeks, while both of you take part all the way through.

Question 6

Do we need any experience?

Accepted Answer

Not at all for the FOUNDATION programme. We built it so that couples who have never done tantra or similar practices before can start easily.

The ADVANCED programme works more deeply with the body and with intimacy, so before you begin, a self-assessment can help you decide whether you are ready for it.

DEEPENING builds on earlier experience, so we recommend it mainly after the Advanced programme.

Question 7

Can I do it on my own?

Accepted Answer

Yes.

Although we created the programmes mainly for couples, many exercises and techniques can also be learned alone. The ADVANCED programme in particular contains many elements of body awareness, breathing, attention and self-knowledge that you can learn without a partner.

The programme can be valuable even if you're not in a relationship right now, but would like to understand yourself better, grow, or prepare more consciously for your next relationship.

For the full experience of the exercises for two, you will of course need a partner.

Question 8

What if we can't keep going every day?

Accepted Answer

No problem at all.

The 12 weeks are a guided path, not a performance contest. Their value doesn't depend on doing every task on exactly the same day.

If life gets in the way, a few days are missed, or you'd like to spend more time on an exercise, you simply carry on where you left off.

Regularity helps, but attentive, real participation matters much more than keeping to the calendar at all costs.

Question 9

Can we ask questions if we get stuck?

Accepted Answer

Yes.

You won't be left on your own during the programme. You can write to us throughout the 12 weeks, and for a further 30 days after you finish, whenever you have a question or feel unsure about something.

We answer your messages personally, within 2 working days at most.

Question 10

Is the programme discreet?

Accepted Answer

Yes. You can do the whole programme at home, just the two of you.

There are no group sessions, no performing in front of strangers and no live models. The exercises take place in your own private space.

You'll find full details on ordering, access and how we handle your data in our Terms & Conditions and our Privacy Policy.

Question 11

Is this therapy?

Accepted Answer

No. The Way of Touch programmes are not therapy and do not replace medical, psychological or couples therapy support.

At the same time, conscious attention, more honest communication, touch, tuning in to each other and regular quality time together can deepen and support the relationship for many couples.

If there is a deep relationship conflict, trauma, ongoing pain or a health problem, it's worth asking a suitable professional for help. If the professional agrees, you can do the programme alongside it.

Question 12

When can we start?

Accepted Answer

Right after your purchase, if you like.

As soon as you have access to the app, you can begin the first week. There's no course start date, group or fixed appointment to wait for.

You decide which day you start, when you practise and at what pace you go.

The programme fits around your life – you don't have to fit your life around the programme.